Christmas traditions…What does that mean for you?

Dec 7, 2019 | 2019 Articles, Mysteryrat's Maze

by Victoria Hamilton

Victoria is the author of Breaking the Mould from Mistletoe and Murder, a Christmas anthology. Details on how to enter to win a $20 Amazon gift card at the end of this post, and a link to purchase Mistletoe and Murder on Amazon.

Our society puts so much pressure on the ‘perfect’ Christmas: tree, food, family, everyone being together, gathered around the tree, happy, cheerful. Not every year nor every family has that. But it’s not new pressure. I think women, in particular, have always felt the stress to make Christmas special for their family. I look back and wonder how my mom did it all. She worked full time as a nurse – and that meant shift work, and holidays, too – but still the whole family got together, if not on Christmas day, then on Boxing Day.

But as I get older, the memories I have are not necessarily of Christmas day at all. I remember making felt tree ornaments with my mom and sister. I remember the music that was always playing when I worked as a cashier at Kresge’s. I recall dashing from store to store downtown, through the muck and slush, to see the Christmas windows that one of the big stores always dressed with moving figures in Christmas scenes. The season holds memories beyond just the day and the gifts.

christmas mysteryI asked Daryl Wood Gerber, who contributed Wreath Between the Lines to the Mistletoe and Murder anthology of three full length cozy mystery novels, what Christmas traditions she holds dear. Daryl said, “I love putting up the tree and decorating and serving pizza (gluten free for me!) and singing carols. We have holiday music blasting. The other thing I love is Christmas morning brunch, with all the little ones tearing into packages, and then gathering at the table afterward for one of our favorite meals: waffles, scrambled eggs, ham, and more!”

Gail Oust, who contributed The Twelve Dice of Christmas to the Mistletoe and Murder anthology, says about her family traditions, “Our Christmas is all about family—daughter, granddaughters, and now four great-grands. I’m guilty of always waiting to be the last one to open a gift. My idea has caught on. When I look around everyone—even the little ones—are hiding a gift behind their backs (and giggling) trying to imitate this strange habit of mine.”

I have to say… I think it’s very cool that whatever you celebrate, and whoever you celebrate with, everyone has their own family and friend traditions. This Christmas I’ll be celebrating with good friends, and raising a glass to wish you all… Happy Holidays!

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30 Comments

  1. This is a great tradition right here!

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  2. Absolutely love your tradition of being the last to open your gift. I might have to copy that. A tradition of mine is everyone gets to open one present on Christmas Eve.

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  3. I enjoy anthologies and the authors in this one are authors I know have written great stories.

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  4. We always made Christmas goodies together. And of course read books!
    kozo8989@hotmail.com

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  5. What a wonderful post. Thanks for the giveaway.

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  6. Yes please, if I win it will give me the money to BUY MORE BOOKS for my home library… pushing 3000 and growing.

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  7. What nice traditions you have!

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  8. Love reading Christmas anthologies. Thanks for the chance.
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  9. I remember Kresge*s! It was always a treat and an adventure.

    What a wonderful collection of authors to celebrate this season with.

    LaurasReadingBlog (at) gmail (dot) com

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  10. Thanks for the info on this set of cozies!!!

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  11. What a wonderful Christmas Present and of course it will go for books…our tradition includes a Christmas Birthday which is my Sister so she gets to open her presents first and we always have birthday cake and sing Happy Birthday as well as wish each other Merry Christmas…this is my favorite Holiday.
    Marilyn ewatvess@yahoo.com

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  12. I loved waking up early before my dad and my brother & sister and having hot chocolate in front of the Christmas tree with my mom. Now that she has passed, I cherish that memory even more.

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  13. My family and I love to play card or board games on Christmas. Just sit around, having fun and talking and laughing.

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  14. We used to open one present on Christmas Eve when we were kids. I loved that. We also celebrated Saint Nikolas day.

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  15. It is a lot of work at Christmas time…so exhausting for the moms….but so worth it!

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  16. I look forward to all of the Christmas-themed books
    that come out this time of year. They are
    feel-good stories and lots of fun to read.
    Thanks for the chance to get this one.
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  17. We attend a Christmas candlelight tour in Marietta. I love the old fashion Victorian homes and decorations. Thanks for the chance. Jess
    Maceoindo(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  18. Memories are when my six daughters were little and woke up early to see what Santa brought!

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  19. I love the idea of 3 books in one, and especially with different authors! I can’t wait to get Mistletoe 3 and stay in the holiday spirit!!

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  20. it was nice reading about the authors traditions..great giveaway.thanks for the chance… mekachew@keromail.com

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  21. Thanks for the chance to win. I love cozy mysteries! A perfect holiday read for Christmas vacation.

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  22. Best tradition is spending time with others–though gifts are good too!

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  23. Thank you for the chance. I love being the last to open gifts, I’ve been doing that for years now. Wonderful traditions to begin.

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  24. I enjoyed reading the traditions & memories you shared! When our oldest daughter had her first child I learned one of my in-laws traditions: They hid the children’s gifts and each child located presents through a series of clues (verbal for the non-readers & written for readers.) This Scavenger Hunt for Christmas presents has been quite fun & funny! Thanks for this giveaway, as I love buying books!

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  25. When my kids were little, I made matching pj’s every year, usually always red and we’d wear then for Christmas Eve. Thanks

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  26. I love the Mistletoe tradition – thanks for the contest.

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  27. Love good holiday stories. Saamm7(at)msn(dot).com

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  28. We have a winner!

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  29. Open one gift Christmas Eve after Mass. Thanks for the chance

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