by Wasan Abu-Baker
During my experience as a teacher, I have found that when working with English as a Second Language (ESL) learners it is important to understand the diversity of native languages spoken at home and the cultural background of each student. This background is an important part of the student’s work ethic and shapes the challenges he or she may face in school. Immigrant Muslims speak a variety of languages at home such as Urdu, Arabic, and Bengali, and many strategies are needed to make the process of absorbing the English language easier for the student. Schools can provide translators who speak the students’ native languages or facilitate that relationship between the parents and the school staff. This will remove the fear of the parents getting involved and the students expressing themselves. Resources exist, but the strategies that need to be used to invest those resources needs planning and organization.
The Pew Research Center estimates that there were about 3.3 million Muslims of all ages living in the United States in 2015. According to the Center of Immigration Studies in 2012, Muslim children living in the U.S. have origins from fifty-seven nations and speak sixty different languages. Muslims settle in large cities such as New York City, Chicago, and Los Angeles. Although Muslim communities are generally seen as a vital organ within the society here, are well educated, civically engaged, and are well established, Muslim students tend to feel marginalized and disregarded in schools. Despite the efforts of Muslim communities to integrate and lobby for right, students continue to be misunderstood which leads to negative outcomes academically and psychologically on their achievements.
Since September 11, 2001, Muslims in the U.S. have been portrayed negatively in the media. They have faced many challenges and discrimination, including, but not limited to, Muslim women who wear the Hijab (head scarf). As a Muslim woman, wearing the Hijab empowers me by strengthening my relationship with God. The media has portrayed this religious symbol as an oppressive practice against women, which is a complete misunderstanding of my religion. Contrary to what the media presents, Islam gives women the right to pursue education, work, have a choice in marriage, express their opinion, and participate in civic life. Although these might seem like social norms nowadays in the West, these rights are enshrined in our religion. As an adult I can face these realities in my social surroundings, however, children are more susceptible to pressure from friends and classmates, therefore I must be a strong example for my daughters so that they learn about their rights and value in our society as Muslim women.
To improve hopes for the younger generation of Muslims in the U.S., we must raise awareness and educate our fellow Americans through dialogues and community action about our reality as Muslims in this country. Islam is one of the three Abrahamic faiths which includes Christianity and Judaism. To practice Islam, there are rules that Muslims must follow and accommodations that need to be made for children in public schools to lower stress and help in the process of integration. For example, it is forbidden for Muslims to eat pork products such as sausage or pepperoni. Teachers must understand that simply removing pepperoni from a pizza in a class party is not enough to accommodate a Muslim student because clearly grease from sausage or pepperoni remains on the pizza. Likewise, it is important to have vegetarian or fish options for lunch so that Muslim children can avoid eating non-zabiha meat (meat that comes from animals slaughtered according to Islamic tradition, like Kosher tradition in Judaism). Although these things might seem trivial to some, these are very important and will help students preserve their faith and will lower the stress level on the child.
Modesty is very important in Islam, and it is important for a Muslim girl to dress modestly. During physical education girls should be given an option to wear pants or long skirts instead of shorts and their Hijab (head scarf) which is obligatory after a girl reaches puberty. Girls naturally are very conscious of self-image, and when they are made to feel that the way they choose to dress as part of their faith is strange or unacceptable they will suffer from a lot of stress. This also impacts older girls and women in college and at work. Young girls need the support of their family and community, including their school and teachers, to grow up being confident members of society who can contribute to the greater good of the community.
There are two main holidays in Islam, Eid Al-Fitr at the end of Ramadan and Eid Al-Adha at the end of Hajj. Many Muslim families consider it wrong to celebrate any holidays other than these two traditional holidays, therefore, they do not participate in American holidays such as Halloween, Thanksgiving, and sometimes birthdays. In addition, some Muslim families consider music with dancing rhythms and lyrics of songs that encourage forbidden behavior to be unacceptable. It is important for school teachers and officials to recognize this and offer the children alternatives to holiday concerts and other events. It is also stressful for the parents to speak with school officials about this because they may be ostracized based on their religious beliefs. Fasting during the month of Ramadan where Muslims do not eat or drink from sunrise to sunset. For school children who desire to fast, it is difficult to participate in physical education and sometimes exams. Accommodations to help those students avoid dehydration and exhaustion is important, which could be as simple as reducing their exercise requirement or letting them stay indoors during physical education.
We need to encourage a strong relationship between the school, students, and parents. When there is dialogue, modifications can be made to help students get engaged in school. This will make the students less stressed and the environment more accepting to Muslims in public schools.
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Wow, I have worked with Muslim students but was not aware of a couple of the points that you made. Students stayed with me in the library instead of going to lunch or outdoor recess during Ramadan because they chose to fast but they went to PE. They were too young to have to fast and the youngest were discouraged from doing so but they were proud of making this choice.
I don’t know if they participated or “sat out”. I know that the mothers who volunteered were intelligent women but I did not realize that Islam included education for woman as part of the tenets. We were not a bilingual school until my last year there so all of the students spoke English well although some of the mothers were so quiet that I did not find out if they spoke it. The definitely understood our Texas accent. It was beautiful to watch those students interact with their parents just as it was with any parents who volunteered. Volunteers tend to come from loving parents of any culture but it seems that the most active were parents who had immigrated. I never encountered one who expected to be disrespected; I love that. It isn’t true of all parents by any means. It was an honor for me to have the chance to meet Muslim parents and children. I had mostly worked in small towns so it was a new experience for me. Thank you for providing enlightenment that so many people in our country need.
?It’s my pleasure to be a good resource for people from other communities or other faiths , it’s my responsibility to stand up and talk about my kids and other kids fears and struggles sometimes , but I see the good people everywhere that they want to listen to us , for my I always care about other people and I feel that we all together can live happily if we open the Dialoug for everyone to share and express their dreams ,
Kings River Magazine provided the safe space for me to share that , I am only one person but I believe that I can do a social change for my community to bring people together and create peace and love .
I was very active in California in social justice issues and community organizer for my community , but there are lots of copies like me that they all care about postitive change and solidarity for all .
Please spread that enlightenment to your friends .
Wasan Abu Baker .
When I become a parent, In Sha Allah I would have my children homeschooled. That way we can give them a full Islamic education and they would not have to go through the fitnah present at schools today!